Values are the principles and traditions that serve as a compass for our lives. When the options and decisions we face feel overwhelming, a clearly defined set of values can help us avoid basing decisions on our emotional state or cultural pressures. If parents establish the practice of values-based decision making early on, this will be a great skill they can pass on to their children. Here is where we talk about this and revisit it, as we address the 4 Stages of Parenting:
While faith is grounded in a belief system, it is more than just acquiring head knowledge. When Jesus calls people to follow Him, he says this involves loving God with all our heart, all our mind, and all our strength, and loving our neighbour as we love ourselves. Jesus modelled this to us through his discipling relationships and we aim to follow his example. At Emmanuel we identify 3 key elements of spiritual formation: Belong, Grow, Share. Here are the ways we aim to families Belong, Grow and Share:
Studies have shown that our children are best positioned to develop a lifelong faith that sticks if they have 5 intentional, intergenerational, caring relationships outside of their immediate family. This is where both the extended family and the faith community can play a significant role. (Dr. Kara Powell, "Sticky Faith")
Consistency in gathering, learning, worshipping, and connecting with families who share your values aids in helping kids establish these relationships.
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Knowing the teachings of Jesus and putting them into practice are key to laying a firm faith foundation for our family. Here are some ways we aim to help kids and parents put faith into practice.
Living out of our values requires putting them into practice; until then, they are just ideals. Jesus said, "Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock...But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand." (Matthew 7:24-26)